Honoring The Free Will Of Others
When we honor people's free will to make choices that help them learn and evolve their souls - regardless if it is through a negative or positive experience - it sets us free from the karmic consequences of their actions and behaviors. If we get attached to other people's free will choices then we open the door to become energetically corded to them and their karmic energies become part of our problem to resolve.
We can not save another. We can provide guidance and "be the example" for them to follow but we can not change their freedom to choose, and it is very egoic for us to think otherwise because even God will not interfere in a souls free will to choose what they would like to experience.
The best way to help others, is to live in alignment with the will of God. If we are expressing blame, criticism, judgment or control over another we are not in alignment with the will of God - we are in alignment with the human ego. And it is our egos way of approaching situations that continues to be replayed in our human consciousness over and over again that is blocking our planet from being able to sustain the high vibrational energies of transformation that are being released at an accelerated rate.
The negative human ego served us while we played the game of duality, fear and control but we are being asked to evolve out of that contract and step into a new soul contract where we evolve in lessons of love, compassion, oneness and understanding.
As our souls evolve out of the old contracts of duality we may be asked to release those original contracted relationships that once served our growth through painful experiences. These relationships may be with toxic foods, addictions to drugs/alcohol/nicotine, any behavior that numbs us and blocks us from the light of greater awareness, jobs that no longer support our joy, attachments to our distorted beliefs, toxic emotions and mental records that keep getting replayed in our heads and personal relationships with others that refuse to evolve into the new paradigm of evolution through love and respect of each other as divine spiritual beings here having a temporary human experience.
We are not here to control others, we are here to learn how to control ourselves. A great mantra to state when we run into difficulties with our ego's wanting to control another person or situation is:
"I honor your free will to make choices that help you learn and evolve. I also honor my free will to be free from your choices so I can remain in alignment with what serves my highest and best good."
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About the Author
Sabrina Reber resides in Destin Florida with her husband Todd and her two children - Alexandrea and Savannah. Sabrina is an artist, author of a soul ascension manual called “Raise Your Vibration”, ordained minister in the Lively Stones Healing Ministry, a vibrational energy healer and a spiritual activist on the “How To Raise Your Vibration” Facebook page where she helps people from all over the world heal so they can return to their truth and live a more joyful, compassionate, loving and spiritually abundant life for themselves and the people they interact with. raiseyourvibration.com Articles written by Sabrina Reber were published on Awakening People with the author's explicit written permission.