Lessons in Detachment for the Highly Compassionate Empath

Lessons in Detachment for the Highly Compassionate Empath
by Essence Ka tha’ras

Being Emotional Sensitive means we are compassionate but keep in mind that there are different types and levels of Compassion.

Compassion from the level of human existence is tied directly to our ability to be empathic. Very often emotional empaths have a difficult time in life until they learn to control their empathic abilities and gifts. I know I did.

Compassion from the human level is often overwhelming and brings us to tears and causes us to say “yes” to people in circumstances we usually would not. We do this because we “feel” other’s emotions and the emotional frequencies of everyone all around us, and it becomes easy to confuse the emotions we are “feeling” as our own.

The human heart radiates an electromagnetic field, and the interaction between the electromagnetic fields of human’s hearts affect our moods, attitudes, feelings and beliefs whether we are conscious of it or not.

Just by going through our normal day, being in traffic, going to work, the grocery store, etc., we are constantly being bombarded with emotions that are not ours, and because we are not consciously focused on this knowledge, we fall into allowing the low vibrational frequency emotions of other’s dramas and personal issues to move into our energy fields, and soon we think what we are feeling is our own emotions, and very quickly it becomes too much to bare.

What transpires next is, we begin reacting and interacting with others in ways that create situations and personal dramas that fit with the emotions we have subconsciously taken on.

We also have to remember that when we say “yes” to helping others beyond what is productive and beneficial for their personal growth, we are not doing it for them, although we think we are; We are doing it for our self. We are doing it because the pain is too much to tolerate and we will do anything to make it stop.

This is Compassion born of the physical human Heart Chakra. Don’t get me wrong; to hold compassion for others is a wonderful and beautiful thing. It is a virtue we MUST possess if we want to do our part in the forward movement of the Spiritual Awakening of Humanity. But Compassion of this vibrational frequency does not benefit anyone. Not the person you are trying to help, and most definitely not you.

Compassion born of the High Heart Chakra is much more in line with Divine Compassion, and this is where we need to learn to understand and work with Compassion from. Here is where we learn the true and higher meaning of the term “Compassion with Detachment”.

One of my favorite quotes on Compassion is from the book “P’taah – The Gift”, by Jani King. In it P’taah shares the following on Compassion with Detachment.

“As you grow in awareness and expand your consciousness you will find that your view of your world also expands.

As you view the dramas and pain and anguish of your brothers and sisters it is important that you balance detachment and compassion.

It is to be in that place of support, open heartedness and unconditional love; to show forth tenderness and giving of yourself, without becoming hooked into the story; without reinforcing feelings of victim hood or powerlessness.”

We must learn to allow others the right to experience the journey of awakening they are creating for themselves upon the path of human life without becoming attached to the dramas and low vibrational frequencies their negative emotions create.

We need to learn that, although we may think we are helping others by taking on their emotional frequencies, (which is what we are doing when we attach to that energy), we are actually adding to their unhappiness and our own.

When you take on the emotional pain of another into your personal energy you are feeding exactly what you desire to ease. This is counterproductive for them and you.

The 6 and 66 Frequencies hold the vibrations that are of the most assistance in helping us to learn the lesson in how to move beyond the human level of Compassion.

The I AM Keyword phrases for 6 and 66 are:

6 – I AM Love’s Responsibility

66 – I AM the Divine Feminine Inspired Planetary Healer

These two frequency bandwidths are a direct communications link to the energy of The Divine Feminine and show us how to take on our Responsibility for helping others out of a sense of Love, and not out of a sense of obligation.

The Divine Feminine leads by example in teaching others how to be responsible in their interactions with others and the world as a whole, and teaches through the energies of love, compassion and tenderness; not by coercion, force, guilt and intimidation.

Begin today in learning how to move into the higher frequencies of Divine Compassion, for by so doing you truly begin to be of more assistance in the healing of yourself and others, as well as the planet as a whole.

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About the Author

Essence Ka tha’ras has been on her conscious spiritual journey for over forty years and works as a Spiritual Growth Guide and Awakening Facilitator. As an Akashic Record Reader, Past Life Regressionist, Usui Reiki Master/Teacher, and Master Metatronic Numerologist, she offers services and beginner to advanced workshops on a wide range of Meta-spiritual topics. She co-hosts the monthly Blog Talk Radio program “Flowing with Spirit”. In the late 1990’s she began work on connecting with and assimilating Multi-dimensional Aspects of Self. Now, working with Aspects of Self she refers to as the Q4, she has begun the work of bringing information of the Metatronic Consciousness Energy Round Reality into the current reality time frame. Articles written by Essence were published on Awakening People with her explicit written permission.