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What Introverts Can Teach Us – It’s Pretty Amazing
by Rick Riddle

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​I have never met a stranger. It’s been this way forever. I am the person who can strike up a conversation with anyone, anywhere – on a bus, in an elevator, at a huge party, at the store – just anywhere there is another human being. 
To me, life has been all about interacting and relationship-building and being around other people as much as possible. Every interaction and relationship, I believe, is a spiritual growth opportunity. 

I didn’t “get” introverts. To me, they were really missing out on a lot of life experiences, and I felt sorry for them – shy, not able to “reach out,” living in their own small worlds. What soul growth was occurring within them was difficult for me to see. Until I decided to date one, that is.
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There was a stunningly beautiful woman at work who was definitely an introvert. She was a “computer nerd,” spending her days in a rather isolated environment and rarely interacting with the rest of us – not attending happy hours or other social events, etc.  I found myself fascinated with her, though she was certainly not “my type.” In fact, I came to think of her as cold and unapproachable and certainly someone who would be boring. Ultimately, I decided to ask her out just out of curiosity. After the third try, she agreed to have dinner with me.
​We dated for several months. During that time, an entire new world opened up for me – one that I had previously cast off as irrelevant and unimportant. I am not sure how much she got out of the relationship, but my takeaways were huge.
  • Introverts are on a path of spiritual growth of observation and introspection. I was constantly amazed at the jewels of wisdom that this woman had to offer about life, relationships, and navigating this busy noisy world.
  • I became far more aware of my dependency upon the noisy world of social relationships – a dependency which usurped my need for introspection and self-growth activities.
  • Her path to enlightenment and self-awareness provided inspiration that moved me in new directions, specifically taking up meditation, reading, and getting comfortable being alone with myself.
  • I realized that most of my relationships were pretty superficial and based on getting together socially for entertainment and to pass the time. Now, I understand how meaningful relationships are built upon so much more. I now actively seek those relationships.
  • I understand the importance of thinking things through before contributing my opinion and making decisions. Before she came into my life, I was acting while I was thinking not after some thought. This has changed so much of what I do at work, especially in the new leadership role I now have.
  • I am improving on my listening skills. On our first date, I did all of the talking – surprised she even accepted a second one after that. She modeled good listening skills, and I will be forever grateful for those lessons.
If you are an extrovert, you owe it to yourself to develop a relationship with an introvert. The lessons to be learned are invaluable and will reap lifelong benefits.


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Rick Riddle is a successful blogger whose articles aim to help readers with self-development, entrepreneurship and digital marketing. Connect with Rick on Twitter and LinkedIn.

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